Ghosting. Part 2

We at omegle random chat decided to notice interesting subject. From the first part of the article is clear that ghosting takes place in modern life and in internet-relationships actually. But there is another side of the issue: the more often you use ghosting rather than endure a difficult conversation, the less you are able to deal with reality. This refers to the true reality – as it was considered a decade ago. No likes and shares - there are real people, problems and relationships.

The public agrees

78% of the American Research Center (in the study were involved people who were born at the end of the last century) said that the alive conversation - the most acceptable way of breakup. At the same time 15% of them have already experienced ghosting and 31% learned about the breakup by SMS. If we look at all age groups in a survey of The Huffington Post and the YouGov, 11% of people know what is ghosting by personal experience. Other studies claim that ghosting involved much more: 17% of men and 24% women.

Different story – those couples who have decided to remain friends after a breakup. That is every one of them begins to live his new life offline. But the web... If you have a common past, Foursquare, facebook and instagram will be regularly reminded of it. And also it may still remain the general accounts, accounts in iTunes, iCloud...

So in general, you have two problems now - your common past and his new present. With the past is clear: photos, check-ins and reminders will pop up, and it is better to prepare yourself for such moments. What about his new present, you cannot be prepared. Men and women experience breakup in different way. Perhaps emotions are similar, but the duration of periods is different. Therefore, if on the second day after the breakup you found him  in the middle of a noisy party, do not worry – he will sob, overeat ice cream and review the "Sex and the City," in about a week.

The good news is that you now also have present

Experts believe that the ghosting phenomenon is such an extension including the fact that each of us is too self-absorbed. No one particularly doesn`t hold nobody. Find the candidate for tomorrow's date using a special application during today's date - a very common practice. There is even the term "shortage of deficiency of relations."

We do not cling to each other, and that's fine. Just a little awkward that outdated stereotypes mix well with the new. "I often come across situations when a girl goes from the date, confident that the guy will call her, and even that he should seek and take the initiative," - says Dr. Goldstein. In other words, she will not call herself. Because it is indecent. In the statement of Dr. Goldstein - "so as not to appear too enthusiastic." That is, we face a tactical ghosting. But the guy thinks that such ghosting is real! And he is upset. Or he decides, "Ok, maybe you are lucky the next time." In fact, to get it, we need to negotiate somehow.