Porn movies for strong relationship. Part two

For some couples joint watching of porn can be a way to find harmony in sex. For example, someone might be embarrassed to share their fantasies. A joint viewing not only helps to at least raise the subject, but also to know each other better, and even to realize some things in practice.

The desire to watch porn-movies does not arise "out of nowhere", it always has a reason. It may be a symptom of problems in the relationship, indicate that one partner is not satisfied with the intimate life. But at the same time it is fun and can enrich the life of the couple. The very fact of the conversation on this subject (to watch or not to watch?) brings together, affecting the most intimate sides. A discussion about what is happening on the screen is really reveals fantasies and aspirations of partners. And often it leads to the expansion of their "technical arsenal".

This, incidentally, confirmed by research data.

51% of women admitted that pornography has expanded their ideas about sex and sexuality. And 11% reported that viewing porn closer together with their partners.

Nevertheless, it is worth remembering that the availability of porn has the same effect as excessive amounts of even the most favorite food. Earlier, people were looking forward to the first strawberries in early summer. And now it is available all year round - and no one is waiting. Interest was gone. Similarly, in the bed: an excess of stimuli leads to a decrease in desire.

Sexologists believe that porn can play a positive role in the lives of those whose imagination is poor. All the rest should take into account that the pornographic films and videos is a phenomenon of the last century. Before that, people treated their own imagination for thousands of years. And they have it, apparently, pretty well.

"Pornography does not wake, but rather replaces the imagination", - experts say.

And there is always the risk that it does not enrich, but substitute a healthy sexual relationship. Each pair has to grope this fine line on their own. As well as take care of not to overstep it.
So, to "visualize" sexual fantasies and do not cross that line, you can try to mix porn with your own sexual history.

Yes, I am talking about the notorious home video - a logical continuation after the joint passion for watching porn. There is the film, the object of desire (real and loved) – that is great! On the same principle dialogues in sex chat rooms (omegle video) can refresh your sexual life. Of course, this is a kind of role-playing game with the flirty story about strangers - again and again (but what matters - without unnecessary shyness!). But most importantly, remember that if we are talking about long-term relationships, your joint experience, your story - not the heavy burden or boring habit, but quite the contrary. To know each other very well means to know those little things and details that will allow bringing maximum pleasure to your partner. It means to be close enough to talk about all sorts of fantasies. In general, use the situation to your advantage.